Love Me Or Leave Me Alone

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Love Me Or Leave Me Alone

Genesis 29:31–35 KJV
31 And when the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb: but Rachel was barren. 32 And Leah conceived, and bare a son, and she called his name Reuben: for she said, Surely the LORD hath looked upon my affliction; now therefore my husband will love me. 33 And she conceived again, and bare a son; and said, Because the LORD hath heard that I was hated, he hath therefore given me this son also: and she called his name Simeon. 34 And she conceived again, and bare a son; and said, Now this time will my husband be joined unto me, because I have born him three sons: therefore was his name called Levi. 35 And she conceived again, and bare a son: and she said, Now will I praise the LORD: therefore she called his name Judah; and left bearing.

Love Me Or Leave Me Alone

Dysfunction is a term that can refer to a problem or fault in a part of the body or a machine
1. In the context of behavior, dysfunction is defined as "any impairment, disturbance, or deficiency in behavior" on the part of an individual person, between people in a relationship, or among family members
2. Dysfunction may manifest as poor communication, frequent conflict, emotional or physical abuse, and much more
can someone give us another example of how dysfunction can manifest?
In what ways can we identify and address dysfunction in our own relationships?
3. Dysfunction may manifest by unrealistic expectations.
What are some examples of being in a friendship, relationship, sista hood, Bromance and have unrealistic expectations?

LEAH (Heb. lēʾâ)

The elder daughter of Laban, sister of Rachel, and first wife of Jacob. She is the mother of six sons and one daughter. Her name is thought to mean “cow” in Hebrew.

Through the trickery of her father, Leah is wed to an unknowing Jacob, who had intended to marry Rachel (Gen. 29:16–26). The text does not indicate what part Leah played in the ruse Laban pulls. As a result, however, she ends up married to a man who does not love her and sharing that husband with her sister. Due to the lack of attention shown to her by Jacob, God blesses her with great fertility, while Rachel is barren. Leah gives birth to Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar, and Zebulun (Gen. 29:31–35; 30:14–20). She also arranges for her maid Zilpah to bear two sons by Jacob, Gad and Asher, who are also attributed to Leah. In addition she has a daughter, Dinah (Gen. 30:21).

Leah is often described as unattractive, in contrast to her beautiful sister. This description revolves around the interpretation of Heb. rakkôṯ used to describe Leah’s eyes (Gen. 29:17). Most translations render the word in English as “weak,” but another possible translation could be “tender” or “soft.”

A key event in the stories involving Leah and her sister and their sharing of a husband occurs when one of Leah’s sons, Reuben, finds some mandrakes, which may have been an ancient aphrodisiac. Leah trades her mandrakes to Rachel (who hopes to use them to conceive) for an extra night with Jacob in her bed. Leah conceives from that union (Gen. 30:14–20). Through her actions and desires, Leah becomes one of the “mothers of Israel.”

4.Has Anyone, besides me ever felt unattractive because you didn’t fit the cultural code of beauty, handsome etc.
eye, ears, nose, teeth, shape of your head or body parts, texture of your hair, skin tone & height.
How can Leah's experiences teach us about valuing ourselves beyond societal standards of beauty?
what are some things you did to get someone to Love you?
Psalm 139:14 KJV
14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
Genesis 29:35 KJV
35 And she conceived again, and bare a son: and she said, Now will I praise the LORD: therefore she called his name Judah; and left bearing.
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